About His Hope Counseling

Meet Dave Pillow, your guide to finding rest, freedom, and hope through Christ.

Meet Your Guide

Who I Am

My name is Dave Pillow.

I know what it’s like to fall. To make a mess of everything. To feel the weight of shame, and the silence of people turning away.

I also know what it’s like to be held by Jesus in that mess. To stop running. To find freedom not by fixing myself, but by resting in Him.

His Hope is a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit ministry. Every premium counseling session helps fund free or reduced care for men and couples in our community who otherwise could not afford it.

My Background (So You Know You’re Not Alone):

Nearly 20 years walking with men through crisis, collapse, and redemption.
I’m not here with theories—I’ve lived this.

This isn’t a theory I read in a book. It’s a life I’ve lived—and by God’s grace, been rescued from.

If you think you’re too far gone, I’m here to tell you: you’re exactly the kind of man Jesus came for.

Why I Do This

I created His Hope Counseling because I’ve lived both sides of the story:

I believe men need a space where they can be honest, broken, and fully seen without being condemned—a place where Jesus is central, not as a slogan, but as a Savior who still frees, heals, and restores.

This is why our model is built on “paying it forward.” Your session invests in your healing and helps another man or couple begin theirs.

What You Can Expect from Me

My Heart for Men

I’ve sat across from men who were ready to end their marriages. Men drowning in addiction. Men riddled with guilt. Men who hadn’t prayed in years.

And I’ve watched Jesus meet them—not with shame, but with love.

This isn’t self-help. This is a Savior-led journey. If you’re ready to stop hiding, I’m here to walk with you.

What You Can Expect from Me

My Heart for Men

I’ve sat across from men who were ready to end their marriages. Men drowning in addiction. Men riddled with guilt. Men who hadn’t prayed in years.

And I’ve watched Jesus meet them—not with shame, but with love.

This isn’t self-help. This is a Savior-led journey. If you’re ready to stop hiding, I’m here to walk with you.

My Heart for Men

I’ve sat across from men who were ready to end their marriages. Men drowning in addiction. Men riddled with guilt. Men who hadn’t prayed in years.

And I’ve watched Jesus meet them—not with shame, but with love.

This isn’t self-help. This is a Savior-led journey. If you’re ready to stop hiding, I’m here to walk with you.

Final Invitation

You’re not too far gone. You’re not too broken. You’re not beyond help.
You’re exactly the kind of man Jesus came for. Let’s talk.

Your choice to book a session is more than personal—it’s also a gift that provides hope for another man or couple who cannot pay.